Problem with the new hoster

[buubi]

Hello people of the internet (I mean CFEW),

Last time I played (Thursday) everything was okay. Now I wanted to play again, and I get kicked by the server.
Error message is the following:

Internal Exception: java.io.IOException: An existing connection was forcibly closed by the remote host

after around 5-30 seconds playing on CFEW.

Things I also noticed while playing (until the kick occures)

• chests, and block drops don't work
  
• chat I enter doesn't appear until right before I get kicked.
  
• "loading terrain" takes unusual long
  
• tab player list is the vanilla one (and contains a list of all players on the server I am on, but only their heads, not their names)
  

the first time I connected I was in CW, and chunk loading took quite long. Then I got kicked the first time (took around 30 secs). My typed text in chat didn't appear, too
After reconnecting I did /home and noticed chests and block drops didn't work. Got kicked again.
I can enter warp commands, which teleport me to the entered warp after the next reconnect. kicking occurs on CW and MW
chunks get loaded very very slowly, I see them pop up one after another every 5 seconds or so

things I tried:

• Java update: no change
  
• Minecraft reinstall: no change for CFEW (but for a different server)
  
• Optifine or vanilla 1.12.2 makes no difference.
  
• router restart including new IP: no difference.
  

My pings
from home (I am connecting from Europe, Germany):
ping to cfew.us: ~250ms
ping to join.cfew.us: no response. (aborted after a minute)

from an US vps (digital ocean NYC):
ping to cfew.us: ~97ms
ping to join.cfew.us: no response. (aborted after a minute)
(the server could block ping packets though)

my internet connections speed is as fast (or slow) as always. Pings are around 10% higher (don't ask me why though)

my ping was (according to the ingame tab list) 135ms before. Now I don't know my ingame ping (obviously)
From my end it looks like I connect to the server with an analogue modem.

I hope it is just some setting which got changed, or anything similiar.

PS: why isn't there a thread about the change of the hoster?


Thanks in advance for sorting this out,
buubi